I feel like my life is a line of perfectly stacked dominoes being knocked over one by one.
The moment one domino hits the ground; the next one is already tilted and ready to fall.
Let’s just say that I’m currently stressed to the point of uncontrollable acne and blurry vision!
One thing that many people can’t understand is that good things can trigger anxiety also.
The constant underlying chance that something could go wrong and the stress of change get me good.
While I’m real happy for blessings, I can’t ignore the anxiety nagging at the inside of my brain!!! Get it OUT!!
I have been so motivated to succeed, that I pushed my mental health to the side.
It’s time to slow down and focus on getting my anxiety in check before it affects my physical health.
Fact: Anxiety and stress can cause many serious medical issues in addition to physical and mental fatigue.
Ten tips to help alleviate stress and anxiety.
1. Take deep breathes.
When you start feeling like your brain is about to hit overdrive, just stop and breathe.
Your eyes should be closed and your thoughts should be focused on your breathing pattern.
This sounds silly, but it really helps. After a few minutes, you’ll feel relaxed and ready to think clearly. I swear!
2. Live with background noise.
The background noise could be soothing music, the TV, or even the sound of your toddler playing.
This will help your brain from wandering into unnecessary stressful thoughts and ideas.
I also find that soft background noise helps me focus. Without it, my brain starts thinking horrible things.
3. Avoid Googling medical symptoms.
Typing medical symptoms in Google is the same thing as diagnosing yourself with a death sentence.
This triggers all those horrible “what if” thoughts and brain clutter that leaves you unable to perform daily tasks.
When my vision went blurry, I self-diagnosed myself with eye herpes. I said, EYE HERPES, people!!!!!
4. Perfect the art of distraction.
When your brain is going a mile a minute, find a way to redirect your focus onto something productive.
Dive into work, a good book, a juicy movie, or even a cleaning fit. Focus your thoughts on a task instead of worry.
This is very difficult for me. When my brain obsesses over something, it really is an art to redirect it.
5. Learn to rationalize.
Many times anxiety brings about irrational thoughts and fears. Try to weed through the things that are impractical.
When a crazy thought enters your mind, ask yourself first if it’s possible, then ask yourself if it’s probable.
Ex: ‘I see perfectly with my glasses. It’s most likely an issue with my contacts and not a brain tumor.’ See, rational!
6. Avoid high doses of caffeine.
As lovely as those big mugs of coffee are, they don’t mix too well with high levels of anxiety.
Swap your fancy espresso for a flavored decaffeinated tea. This will help your brain from going into overdrive.
Sometimes caffeine prevents me from winding down when I should be. It’s just not healthy all around!
7. Invest in melatonin.
Melatonin is a natural sleep aid found in the vitamin aisle. Pop two of those bad boys and you safely snooze.
Anxiety can make it very difficult to fall asleep. Melatonin is a great solution especially since it's nonaddictive.
The moment I lay in the dark ready to sleep, all the thoughts start pouring in. Melatonin really helps!
8. Always stay organized.
Make your schedule, home, career, and every other aspect of your life as organized as possible.
Everything is just a tad less stressful and rushed when there is order to it.
I'm all about eliminating opportunities for anxiety to grow!!
9. Do not try to predict the future.
There's nothing worse than worrying and obsessing over what MIGHT happen.
Living in the present and avoiding stress over things that may never happen is key!
This is the hardest part for me. My brain thinks it has Miss Cleo like powers...
10. Recognize your current state of mind.
When you can stop and tell yourself "hey, that's my anxiety speaking", you're halfway there!
When you can't prevent all of something it's vital to be able to recognize it and fix it.
Don't pull a Jax and over think this! Sometimes I ignore valid thoughts because I mislabel them as anxiety.
How do you alleviate stress and anxiety?