Friday, June 1, 2012

Guest Post: What mummy didn't tell me!


Happy Friday Everyone!!
I have a special treat for you all today.
June from Miraculous Ladies has accepted my invitation to write a guest post on my page.
Have you seen June's website?  It's as amazing as she is with loads of information and inspiration.

She put together a fantastic list about a great topic.
...and you all know how I love my lists!
I hope you all enjoy this article as much as I did!

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10 Things Mummy Didn’t Tell Me About Life

When I was growing up, my mum didn’t talk to me much about life and its little surprises. I learned a lot by trial and error. Most West Indian mothers don’t sit their daughters down and dish out the facts-of-life! I guess it’s because they didn’t get any advice from their mums. Therefore, a lot of us are left to fumble around in the dark, and figure out things for ourselves.These are the things my mummy didn’t tell me:
  • That I should study hard at school so that I could pass my exams: I went to school in Jamaica for many years and continued when I came to the UK. I had too much freedom as a new teenager on the British scene. My mum didn’t tell me off for not doing my homework. I didn’t get in trouble for bunking off school nor did my mum talk to me about my exams. Mum didn’t encourage me to revise either. The result? I got bad grades. It wasn’t all her fault but her advice would have helped a great deal.
  • That  friends can hurt me: When I was young, friends were the most important things in my life. I couldn’t possibly live without them. I did everything to keep them. Mum loved my friends. She always invited them over for tea or sleep-overs. But she forgot to tell me that they could hurt me, deceive me, lie to me, stab me in the back and walk all over me. She didn’t warn me that friends were not all peaches and cream. Some of them were like prickles and thorns.
  • Not to accept lifts from strangers: I was born in Jamaica and grew up in the country in a small friendly community. I trusted everyone around me. When I came to the UK I was quite immature and trusting. Mum didn’t warn me not to trust men I didn’t know. On my way home from work one evening a man offered me a lift home. I trusted this total stranger and got into his car. Big mistake! He drove for a while then stopped the car. He unzipped his trousers and asked me to do something disgusting, which I guess you can imagine. I ran out of that car so fast, my feet didn’t touch the ground. I was lucky!
  • That she would really lock me out if I came home after 10pm: When I was 16 my friends and I used to go clubbing. Mum told me to be home by 10pm the latest. If the club was good, we just wanted to carry on having fun. Sometimes we forgot to check our watches. One night I got home at 10.30. I tried to open the door but it was bolted from the inside. I knocked the door. No answer. Mum locked me out. I had to sleep on the doorstep. That was a scary experience. So, I always made sure I was home on time after that.
  • That boys could break my heart: Mum didn’t talk to me about the opposite sex at all. When I met my first boyfriend, I brought him home and introduced him to mum and dad. They liked him and gave me their approval to date him. But she didn’t advise me about relationships or tell me about the signs to look out for from a cheating boyfriend. I was left to discover the ugly part of relationships by myself. I got hurt many times but learned to cope with it by developing self-resilience.
  • Mum didn’t talk to me about sex: I was an extremely naïve teenager and was fascinated about sex. Like most teenager are! I wanted to know about it but couldn’t ask mummy. She was too embarrassed to tell me about the birds and bees! It was a taboo subject to her and not up for discussion. And she certainly didn’t expect me to experiment by doing it.
  • That if I got pregnant she would disown me: As I said earlier, mum didn’t talk to me about sex. As a teenager I was emotionally weak and easily influenced. My first boyfriend persuaded me that having sex was the right thing to do. He used that old line, ‘If you really love me, let’s do it.’  Well, not surprisingly, I got pregnant. My mum was furious. She disowned me and threatened to send me back to Jamaica. She was ashamed of me because I brought shame on the family. Maybe if she had discussed sex with me, I wouldn’t have been so quick to try it!
  • That learning to cook was important because one day I will move out: My mum was a fantastic cook, but she never shared her kitchen. Somehow she didn’t think it was important to teach me the skill that all young girls should master. I was allowed to watch but not cook. So when I left home I was a rubbish cook. My boyfriend was a better cook than me. It took me years to learn how to cook properly.
  • That living on my own would be so hard: When I left home I had a six month old baby. My parents had separated. Mum went back to Jamaica and my dad went to live in Birmingham. I moved in with my boyfriend. Life was tough. He wasn’t the best partner and I didn’t have my mum to lean on. Money was tight, I couldn’t cook, and we lived in a bed-sit and had to share a bathroom with four other people. I hated it but had nowhere else to go.
  • That life without a mother would be so painful and difficult: When my mum went back to Jamaica it was very painful for me. We were only just getting to know each other and she left me again. Every girl needs her mum around. She’s supposed to be the role model, the fountain of guidance, the shoulder to cry on, someone to sit and have a cup of tea and chat with and the one to run home to when your boyfriend is being a jerk. It was lonely without my mum. Telephone calls and letters didn’t do it for me. I missed her presence. I don’t think she realised the impact her absence had on my life.
I love my mum to bits but unfortunately she was absent for most of my life. I feel like I missed out big time on the mother-daughter relationship.Now that I’ve got my own daughters, I suppose I’m trying to compensate for what I didn’t have.I’m always in their faces. I call them a thousand times a day. They’re my friends as well as my daughters.I don’t want them to ever feel neglected.


What type of relationship did you have with your mummy? Was she always there for you?

101 comments:

  1. Most of what I learned about what goes on in the world I learned from ABC Afterschool Specials. Just kidding...I learned a lot from the CBS, and NBC "afterschool specials" too. (But I don't think they called them "afterschool specials" because ABC owned the rights to that.) That's how I learned not to get into strangers cars, or go to wild drug parties with teenagers, or drink too much before I participate in the Olympic figure skating trials. Then when I got older I learned a lot from "the final thought" on the Jerry Springer Show.. and the rest I learned from renting Stanley Kubrick's "Full Metal Jacket"...oh yeah...and from the Bible.

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    1. LOL Well, I'm sure those are all reliable sources. I guess that's better than learning through rap music and video games ;) haha

      Too bad June didn't write this list up a little sooner for ;)

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  2. My mum and I fall out quite a lot recently, due to conflicting perspectives, but we're cool now.
    As long as I bring the good grades home. And wash my own underwear.

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    1. Good grades and underwear? That's all it took? Damn... hahahaha

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  3. Awwww made me tear up! I'm sorry that you missed your mom when you were growing up - but so nice that you can be there for your own kids!

    I can relate to a lot of what you describe - my mom is awesome with everything she does - but she never had me learn the tricks of the trade. Unfortunately, I'm a little too lazy to try and figure it all out now. ;-)

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    1. June did a really great job writing this, didn't she?? I fell in the love with the article when I read it! You can check out her website at the link above. If you liked this article that much, then you'll fall in love with her other ones!

      Besides, she made me a vinegar guru! I use it for everrryyttthhinnnggg!!!

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    2. She did :-) and I'll be following her blog from now on!

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    3. Aw, yay!! You'll love her. She's so sweet and her posts are always full of great advice and inspirational writings :)

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    4. Hey there Jax! I've given you an award - if you're into that sort of thing then stop by to pick it up :-)

      http://abozosabbozzo.blogspot.in/2012/06/more-awards-yay.html

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    5. Thanks so much girl!! I'm over there right now to see it!! Eep :)

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  4. My mom overdid all of this. She pushed me too much to study hard and made me hate guys and asked to take over kitchen when I was 10years old and much more, now I can't wait for to get out of my life forever. If I ever hate anyone in my life, she is the one and another one in Angelina Jolie

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    1. MaMTC, why don't you hide how you really feel!? lol Angelina Jolie is pretty rotten, especially after what she did to poor Jennifer Anniston.

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  5. I was raised by wolves. Not gay one's or musical one's or musically gay one's. Just wolves.

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    1. I would love to meet a pack of musical wolves. Where can I find these?

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    2. This guys the most badass guy on all of blogger.

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    3. LOL Well, he was raised by wolves. That's what happens ;) lol

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  6. that car episode sounds horrid.
    And I didn't know you have a kid, Jaxy!
    My mom didn't tell me any of these things either, nor dad. We just have to learn everything on our own.

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    1. Ohh, I don't Dez!! This was a guest post. June from Miraculous Ladies wrote this for me. She's an excellent writer.

      My parents actually did take time to warn me of a few of these things. I grew up in a very "vocal" family. LMAO They actually yelled and warned me about things before I even knew what they were. hahaha

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    2. my bad, I didn't read the first lines carefully and thought you're doing a guest post at her place soon, and that this is your own one.
      For a second I thought you had kittens :)

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  7. @Jax - you found a real gem with June, I went to her blog but didn't see a way to subscribe through Blogger =(

    @June - This was a well written article. While your relationship with your mom was strained, you seem to have used it to improve the way you parent your children. I have done the same thing with my children; taken what I didn't like from my mom and removed them my parenting style. Kudos to you!

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    1. I did, she's great!! I subscribe through e-mail. Whenever she makes a post, I get a little e-mail. It's worth it b/c she really is amazing!!

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    2. Oh, okay, I was hoping I wasn't crazy!

      I'll be working on your post this weekend. I should have a draft to you either later this weekend or early next week =)))

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  8. Om Jax is a wonderful guest post; I suffer almost all especially by friends (and still) Im that such of person that really love my friends and always Im worry by them. Anyway how she say all is good for resilence:)
    With my mom you know I have a lovely and close frienship is a nice partner and a lovely person we are more close now than in the past; I think she is awesome!
    My mother have 83 but in some things is like a girl!
    Have a nice weekend dear:)

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    1. Thanks, Gloria! She did such a great job with this!

      Mother-daughter relationships seem to be very difficult through the teenage years. I see it with all the estrogen lurking around my family. We all dislike our mothers, but then once we hit our twenties, it's like we're best friends :)

      Thanks for sharing, Gloria! So glad to hear that the future Mrs. Clooney is so close with you ;)

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    2. Ha,ha, oh dear, I have tosay she laugh a lot when I comment this you say! I talk with her all days!

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  9. Great post June! I think that's the best kind of mother to be, one that is a friend and is always calling them. I'm sorry your relationship with your mother wasn't the greatest.

    Me and my mom have always had a pretty good relationship. Our personalities are a lot alike so we can both enjoy the same things. Shes always been there for me too so I couldn't have really asked for too much more besides her to quit smoking. Don't want her to die of lung cancer.

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    1. Yes, she did a wonderful job! Something interesting to keep you thinking all weekend :) Oh, I love that you had a great relationship with your mother. My mom and I had a rocky start in my teenage years but formed a great relationship later. Now she calls me too many times in one day... lol

      Ohh, quitting smoking is a grea thing if you can get her to do it!

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  10. I've always had a good relationship with my mother. My mom's mother, well she says her early life was not fun under her upbringing.

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    1. Glad to hear that you had a great relationship :)

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  11. my mom and i are very different. i'm a really calm, quiet chick, and she's a super loud and angry italian mama!

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    1. Calm, quiet chick with a rocking blog!! lol Loud and angry mommas are the best! lol Keep us on our toes.. hahaha

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  12. This just about broke my heart! I want to go wake my kid up and hug her hard. She would NOT be happy I woke her up though! lol Thanks for putting my books up woman!

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    1. Aw, Melynda...I say wake her up and hug! She'll go right back to bed. LOL No problem about the books. :) Once my copy finally arrives, I will be posting a fabulous review for you!

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  13. I don't know that since my mom loves me... I once didn't know that my mom loves me but now I do..

    p.s.
    By the way, why aren't you sleeping??? The time looks like you are writing in the dawn... Aren't you tired?

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    1. Of course your mommy loves you!!

      I sleep!!!!! I just work at the crack of dawn and have too much to do at night, so it's a limited amount of hours ;) lol

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  14. "That friends can hurt me." Yep. My mom was pretty hands off when it came to my friendships and I wish she'd explained that to me.

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    1. Yes, friends can be very cruel. In fact, as you get older your group of friends thins out tremendously. My family has always been so large and overbearing that I never thought about my "friends" ever going away. June made a great point with that one!

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  15. My mom has always been there for me 100%. But she never talked to me about sex. Never. I learned everything from the internet and TV. Ha!

    http://www.glamkittenslitterbox.com/
    Twitter: @GlamKitten88

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    1. I'm glad to hear that Bonnie!! Internet and TV is how most of us learned about sex. I remember my mommy went with me to "maturity night" at school. Afterwards she asked me if I had any questions about it. I was like, um, I already looked that up online a longggg time ago. hahahaha

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  16. @Jax
    Feel lucky if you had a good mom unlike mine. I guess Italians and Indians do share the stigma and taboo attached with momma. Indians, even if the mom is like Casey Anthony, they wouldnt blame the mom, they always blame the kid even if they are 2 years old.

    My mom is like Tyler Clementi's mom, she will push everysingle person to suicide and dare enough to come to the hospital and put on a face mask and turn the tables and blame someone else for suicide or date to patronise for trying to take your life. If only the crowd is bunch of idiots could buy her story and crocodile tears. These bitches cant even spell G-U-I-L-T-Y. Arrogant bitches.

    -The above is how I really feel about bad mommies. Should I hide my true feelings? :)

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    1. I'm very blessed to have my mommy. We had a very rough start to our relationship, but as I grew so did our bond. I hope one day you and your mom work it out :)

      I'm off to google Tyler Clementi.

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  17. wow, what an interesting piece. Being someone with respect for "tough love" - I think the story about being locked out of the house is kinda funny and something that my Dad would have done (okay, he would have let me come in eventually but my Dad always punished my poor behavior). I really appreciate her honesty regarding getting pregnant and the loss of a close relationship with her Mom when she needed her most. Thank you for sharing such a poignant piece!

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    1. LOL Yes, I got locked out on the back stoop a few times. Tough love is how we learn to respect our parents. If we don't get punished, how do we learn that there are consquences to our actions? Great pont, Caitlin!!

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  18. Wow, what an incredible guest post from June. It's crazy how much she has learned through so much hardship! Thanks for sharing this with us, Jax!

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    1. Yes, she did a great job! Have a wonderful weekend.

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  19. My mum was always there for me but sadly died in 1995. I still miss her.

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    1. Oh, I'm sorry to hear that! =\

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  20. I am so glad that June is trying to be a better mother and not following by the example she had. It is a shame she and her mom couldn't have been closer and had a better relationship. I thank God for the relationship I have with my mom. She was and is always there for me. Even though I am almost 40, I don't know what I would do without her. She continues to teach me how to be a the best mom I can be to my own girls.

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    1. Yes, I think that was the best part of the article. She was able to make up for where her mother lacked with her own children. :) Your mom sounds great!

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  21. My mom tried to teach me everything I needed to know. Unfortunately, public school beat her to a lot it. The main things she taught me first were "Don't talk to strangers" and "Santa isn't real". (She said that she only told me because she heard kids from my class talking about it, but I was still not talking to strangers, even my own classmates!)

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    1. LOL Santa isn't real? I used to pretend to believe just so I could still get gifts ;) lol Public schools beat a lot of parents to many things. hahaha

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    2. After that, I figured out that the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy didn't pay me any visits either but I still played along just for chocolate and money (though, I have no idea what an eight year old would buy with that money xD).

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  22. The cat was just popped out and fed for a while then he was sold off, the cat was sold to the service of another human, can you believe it, SOLD! No wonder the cat has issues.

    Yeah mom was always there for Pat though, could pretty much ask anything and I did, dad on the other hand, not so much.

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    1. That explains so many of that cat's issues. Between that and being a pisces, he must be an emotional wreck! lol

      Your mommy sounds great too! Love happy mommy stories :)

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  23. There are moms that communicate about boyfriends and sex? I had no idea.

    The part about the pregnancy made me really sad. My mom has done a lot of horrible things, and I've done things that probably deserved her disowning me, but we always stuck it out. And I'm glad 'cause now I love her whole bunches.

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    1. LOL Yes, even my grandmother communicated with me on that one! Sooo awkward!!!!! hahaha

      Yes, the pregnancy part made me sad too, but she grew from it. I'm glad you and your mom worked things out and got close. xoxo

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  24. Great guest post - my parents also locked me out for coming home late.
    It only happen once for me to realise that when they said a time they meant it.

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    1. LOL This seems to be a going trend...but it works!!

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  25. Some valid and good points.
    But the last one is the best ..... life without a mother would be so painful and difficult.
    (I still cant believe that you slept the whole night on the steps)

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    1. Oh, not me! This was a guest post by June from Miraculousladies.com. You should check her out because she's pretty awesome ;)

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  26. Jax thank you so much for publishing my article on your blog. That's really nice of you! I would love for you to write one for my blog as well. You'll be my first guest writer and you deserve the honour. :-)

    THANK YOU for all the wonderful comments. I just wrote a post on my blog to say 'THANK YOU' for all your awesome comments. I really, really appreciate it. You touched my heart.

    From reading your comments I see that a lot of you can identify with what I went through. It's good to know that we share things in common.

    Have a fantastic weekend :-)



    Have a fantastic weekend!

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    1. Oh, no problem! I was honored to post it! So well written and talked about a great topic. Thanks for the invitation and I accept!! Yes, yes, yes!! hahaha

      Have a great weekend!! xo

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  27. i am going to have to agree with a lot of the points here. you'll learn a whole new set of "what your mom didn't tell you" when you have kids!! :P

    hope you have a great wknd. :)

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    1. Oh boy...that's a scary thought! LOL

      have a great weekend!

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  28. my Mummy never taught me how to wrap my bandages properly...i disowned her after that...

    thanks for caring, babe :)

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  29. I can totally relate to some parts of this post, I did a lot of growing up fast and figuring out thing for myself at a young age.
    Fantastic post... now off to see what TV shows I'll have to wait a decade for when it comes over to Greece!
    x.o.x.o

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    1. LOL A decade? Oh my!! Do you have access to hulu there? You should check that out asap!! lol

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  30. Locking you out of the house is probably the best mothering technique of all-time.

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    1. Yes, that appears to be the on going response that ;) lol

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  31. ...loved this post, Jax. Offering us a peak into your relationship with your mother. Enjoyed every word ;)

    My relationship with Mom? ...let's just call it complicated, and leave it at that. After all, I wrote a book on the subject, "South of Charm," allowing my words to explain a few things.

    El

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    1. Thanks, Elliot! This wasn't my relationship with my mother, this was from my guest writer. June from miraculousladies.com. lol

      Complicated is ok. lol

      Hope you had a great weekend!

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  32. Found this post very interesting, keep up the good work

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  33. my dad, like a lot of dads, didn't talk to me about sex either. i can see where it could be terribly awkward for a parent. and then to the kid:)
    how can i learn to cook with an italian mom who insists on cooking for me?
    i'm blessed that's she here and in great health and very active with babysitting for my sisters.
    nice guest post.

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  34. hi dear! this is great and very interesting post from your friend!!! i can relate to her since I grew up most of my life with grandma i had so many things from my mom that i learned now that i got old and became mother as well... honestly, i had no idea what and how it feel about "mother and daughter" relationship until I gave birth to my son.. its something to treasure and now i actually recovering many things from my mother hehehehe.

    take care. xoxo, Haus of Gala

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  36. My mother is different from the stereotypical Asian Mother which is awesome. Seriously, the only thing that really bothers her is when I sleep in.

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  37. That was quite an interesting post, i like how you view your blog, its almost like a tv station reporting current affairs and news with all these guest posts. My parents are odd, im not close to either of them, but i suppose they are good people they were not massively big on family and doing things together, quite odd really. Anyway, khallas.
    I never had big arguments with them like your guest post, i was a bit of a reader and drawer as a child so no real rebellions.

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  38. My ex-boyfriend dumped me 4 months ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him.I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me.I was so confuse and don't know what to do,so I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness.I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that,we are about to get married.once again thank you Antogai spell.you are truly talented and gifted.Email: antogaispelltemple@yahoo.com is the only answer.he can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man

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  39. She would disown you? Dear Lord.....

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  40. My name is cheney from uk. I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in February this year on a business summit. I meant a man who’s name is DR.EGOGO he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3years. I really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 7 days when i returned to Canada, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better. His email is egogotemple@yahoo.com

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  41. I and my boy friend as been separated for a long period, I cam across different spell caster and they were all unable to bring my lover back. I was so sad and almost gave up on him when i met a spell man Dr ogogro that helped me get my lover back. Ever since then i have been so happy and couldn't believe it would happen. He also helped me with success spell, I have been living happily with my lover now and will be getting married soon. Here is his contact if you need his help ogogorotemple@yahoo.com

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  42. Hello am Jennifer from UK i wanna thank Dr Paloma for what he has done for me at first i taught he was scam but until i just decided to follow my mind.i told him that my ex lover which i loved with all my heart left me for another all Dr Paloma did was to laugh and said he will be back to me in 3days time i taught he was lying on the 3rd day my ex called me and said he wanna see me,i was shocked then he came over to my place and started begging that he was bewitched,immediately i forgives him and now we are back and he his really madly in love with me.All thanks to Dr Paloma he indeed wonderful incise you wanna contact him here his is private mail palomaspelltemple@yahoo.com

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  43. - I am kasha i lives in uk and i was in a serious relationship with my ex guy for three good years.. One day we were in a dinner party, we had a little misunderstanding which lead to a Quarrel and he stood up and left me at the dinner party. i try to call him but he was not picking my calls so after than i contacted my brother and told him about it,my brother so much love me that he had to see him on my behalf,he told my brother that it is over between us.. Then i contacted a friend of mine that had this similar experience and she directed me to one of the spiritual diviner (maduraitemple@yahoo.com).at first i thought it was not going to be possible and i contacted him i was ask to come up with a little requirement,so i did what i was ask to do, after 3 days i was in my office when my ex guy called me and was asking me to forgive him and come back to him. i was very surprise it was like a dream to me,so ever since we have been happily married with one kid my lovely baby(Ceslav)...i wish you the best of luck...

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  44. Hello everyone I have just met with this priest of the Ishvara temple and I finally find out that he is really a truthful spell caster and so powerful and he is the most powerful spell caster that I have ever met. I wish I have met him before. and my husband have just come back to me and every thing happened just the way he had said it I am so happy that I have met with him and now I have my husband back to my self. If you all that are here have not tried him you just have to do so and get your heart desires fulfilled. Stop been doubting I have tested him and I am now a fulfilled woman to my husband and we are so happy to be together once again. You can reach this spell caster if you need help at ishvaratemple@yahoo.com

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  45. Hello every one i want to testify of the good thing this great spell caster has done for me i was having some problems in my relationship i have contact some spell caster and no result on till i came are cross this spell caster who a friend told me of i gave it a try, In just 2days after the spell has been castled my lover came back to me and ask for forgiveness am so happy for what this great spell caster has done for me thanks to you priest Oduma for all you have done for me ...Thanks you sir for your help i will always tell people about you .....
    If you are having problems in your relationship contact priest Oduma for help via: spellofsolution@gmail.com OR call him on his cell phone +2348153363047

    PRIEST ODUMA YOU A REAL SPELL CASTER
    MAY GOD BLESS YOU SIR


    williams
    new york

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  46. bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found drmarkrobbinspelltemple@yahoo.com a grate spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. two days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 10 years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. DRMARKROBBIN released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I'm writing this testimony right now I'm the most happiest girl on earth and me and my boyfriend is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that's why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to DRMARKROBBIN for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as she has done mine for me, she will definitely help you too. drmarkrobbinspelltemple@yahoo.com

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  47. Dear friend it is almost two months now since i order a pregnancy spell cast on me by Dr LUKMAN from templeofsolution@live.com and which i started seeing changes on my body since the first week of last month and it two month and i am carrying my own baby in my warm i am so happy that i finally get pregnant after all i been through. All thanks be to DR LUKMAN ......
    CONTACT HIM ON HIS EMAIL VIA TEMPLEOFSOLUTION@LIVE.COM OR CALL +2348073082462 FOR HELP AND HE WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY THE WAY HE MAKE ME HAPPY

    LUCY BROWN
    CANADA

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  48. my name is Susan i want to thank my friend for showing way to
    prophetludaspelltemple@outloook.com where all my sorrow was turn to joy, i was
    in a relationship for 2years and suddenly a mistake came into it from my
    side but i tried to beg my man but he refuse to listen to my apologies,
    until my friend told me about a grate spell caster that help her when she was
    also in a problem but i did not believed in her cause i dont also belived
    in spell caster until i chose to give him a trial. this man told me what i
    need to do so that my man will come and after doing them my man came back
    to me and apologize the way this spell caster told me, so people out
    there i am using this opportunity to inform you all that this is the best
    caster that you can ever contact and trust in him cause with him all your
    problems are solved, please contact him through his email address:
    prophetludaspelltemple@outlook.com

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  49. HI my name JULIANA AM FROM ESPANIO i want you all to hellp me in thanking DR ABULU who help me with my problems. My husband and i have been married for eight years now ,we live happily as good couples until a friend of mine cast a spell on my husband. he abandoned me and his family, he didn’t even want to see me at all because he was under a spell. it was now getting to six months since my husband abandoned me and i was frustrated and don’t know what to do until i meet this great spell caster on line, I tell him my problems and he give me four days assurance that he will come back to me. He help me break the spell that was caste on my husband and to my greatest surprise the fourth day my husband came knocking on my door and beg me for forgiveness. once again thank you DR ABULU you can also contact him through his mail abuluspiritualtemple@yahoo.com

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  50. hello everyone my name is Cindy John, i just want to share my experience and testimony here.. i was married for 7 years to my husband and all of a sudden, another woman came into the picture he started hating me and he was abusive. but i still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost then he filed for divorce my whole life was turning apart and i didn't know what to do he moved out of the house and abandoned the kids that we have, so someone told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster name prophetludaspelltemple@outlook.com. so i decided to try it reluctantly. although i didn't believe in all those things then when he did the special prayers and spell, after 2 days, my husband came back and was pleading for my forgiveness that he had realized his mistakes I just couldn't believe it anyway we are back together now and we are happy in case anyone needs this man, his email address prophetludapelltemple@outlook.com his spells is for a better life.

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  51. Dear friends, my name is Drake Berry from united states i had a problem with my husband 2years ago, which lead to our break up. when he broke up with me, i was not my self again, i felt so empty inside me. until a friend of mine Walt Pen told me about a spell caster who helped him in the same problem too. i email Dr SHAVAI the spell caster and i told him my problem and i did what he asked of me, to cut the long story short. before i knew what was happening my husband gave me a call and told me that he was coming back to me in just 2days and was so happy to have him back to me. we have two kids together and we are happy with our selves. thanks to priest Dr SHAVAI for saving my relationship and for also saving others own too. continue your good work the great spell caster email address :shavaispellhome@yahoo.com

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  52. THE GREAT DR iyare WHO BROUGHT MY HUSBAND BACK TO ME IN JUST ONE DAY. My name is Nancy John from uk, I got married 1 year ago. My husband and I have been living a very happy and lovely life. So as time went on, I began to notice this strange attitude that he was possessing. He was now going out with other girls, to the extent that he was no longer picking up my calls, and he was not even sleeping in the house anymore. I became confused and didn't know what to do anymore. So i became worried and stranded, that brought so many thoughts into my mind, because I have never experienced a thing like this in my life. So I decided to visit a spell caster, to see if he can help me out. So immediately I went to the internet, where I saw an amazing testimony of a spell caster who brought someone's ex lover back, "DR iyare" so I contacted him immediately and I explained to him all my problems and he told me that it will be very easy for him to solve, compare to the ones that he has done before. And he also gave me some proof to be really sure of his work, and he assured me that my husband will come back to me as soon as he is through with the spell casting. And also he told me to put all my trust in him, and I really obeyed him. So it was 8:00 am on the next morning, when I was about going to work, when i received my husband call, and he told me that he was coming back home, and he was apologizing to me telling me that he is very sorry for the pain that he has cost me. And after some hours later, he really came back home, and that was how we continued our marriage with lot of love and happiness, and our love was now stronger than how it were before. DR iyare also told me that once my heart desire has been granted unto me that i should go and testify of his work right here on the internet. Right now I am the happiest woman on earth today as I am writing this testimony, and I want to really thank "DR iyare" for bringing back my husband, and for bringing joy and love to my family. So my greatest advice for you out there who your husband or your wife is acting strange, or you have any problem with your relationship or anything that has to do with spell casting,He is capable of solving any problems.All you need do is for you to contact this man anytime, and i assure you that he will be of help to you,I am 100% sure that he will solve it out.

    CONTACT HIM NOW ON THIS
    Email: dr.iyarespelltemple@gmail.com

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  53. My name is Andrew Lydia i am from United States, I was in a relationship with john and we loved and cherished ourselves for 3 good years and every thing was going on smoothly but February 14, 2012 a day i can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because i answered a call from a guy that is asking me out for a date but i refused,and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and i begged him because i love him so much but he refused me i was so down cast and i felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a Dr IYAYI that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back,a good job and favor in any of her endeavor but at first i was scared but i have to give this man a trial because i love Ben very much and i am not willing to loose him to any woman,so i ordered returning my love spell from this Dr IYAYI that made me a happy woman again to say it all my ex came back to me with much love and a caring heart...i am testifying to this great spell caster Prophet of Goddess. if you need his help you can contact him on driyayispelltemple@hoo.ca

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  54. I never believed in love spells or magic until I met this spell caster once when i went to see my friend in Indian this year on a business summit. I meant a man who's name is Dr ATILA he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one's gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I'm now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 5 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3years. I really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 7 days when i returned to Canada, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn't believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better. His email is atilahealinghome@yahoo.com

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  55. BE CAREFUL HERE NOBODY CAN HELP YOU HERE OR EVEN SUGGEST HOW YOU CAN GET YOUR EX OR LOVE BACK,ANY TESTIMONIES OF MOST SPELL CASTER HERE MUST BE IGNORE.BECAUSE MOST OF THEM ARE SCAM I MEAN REAL SCAM WHICH I WAS A VICTIM AND I GOT RIPPED OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS BECAUSE I WAS SO ANXIOUS TO GET MY WIFE BACK AFTER SHE LEFT ME FOR OVER 2 YEARS WITH MY 7 YEARS OLD SON JERRY,I HAVE APPLIED TO 7 DIFFERENT SPELL CASTER HERE AND ALL TO NO AVAIL THEY ALL ASK FOR SAME THING SEND YOUR NAME YOUR EX NAME ADDRESS AND PICTURE PHONE NUMBER ETC WHICH I DID OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND MOST OF THEM WERE FROM WEST AFRICA UNTIL I SAW A POST ABOUT MAMA ANITA SPELL AND I DECIDED TO GAVE HER MY LAST TRAIL.SHE ASK ME FOUR THINGS MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND $180 AND SAID MY EX WILL COME BACK IN 24HOURS, I HAVE PAID OVER $3000 ON SPELL CASTING AND COURIER AND NOTHING HAVE WORK FOR ME AFTER 3 DAYS I WAS THINKING ABOUT HOW MUCH I HAVE LOST SO FAR SO I SAID LET ME GIVE HER A TRY SO I CALLED HER AGAIN AND SEND MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND THE $180 BECAUSE I SWEAR IT WAS MY LAST TRY SO I WAS WAITING AS SHE TOLD ME TO WAIT TILL NEXT DAY AND I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE MY WIFE AND WANT HER BACK AT 9PM THAT DAY I SAW MY WIFE ON LINE ON FACE BOOK AND SHE SAID HI AT FIRST I WAS SHOCK BECAUSE SHE NEVER TALK WITH ME FOR THE PAST A YEAR AND 9 MONTH NOW I DID NOT REPLY AGAIN SHE SAID ARE YOU THERE? I QUICKLY REPLY YES AND SHE SAID CAN WE SEE TOMORROW I SAID YES AND SHE WENT OFF-LINE I WAS CONFUSED I TRY TO CHAT HER AGAIN BUT SHE WAS NO MORE ON LINE I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT AS I WAS WONDERING WHAT SHE IS GOING TO SAY, BY 7.AM THE NEXT MORNING SHE GAVE ME A MISS CALL I DECIDED NOT TO CALL BACK AS I WAS STILL ON SHOCK AGAIN SHE CALL AND I PICK SHE SAID CAN WE SEE AFTER WORK TODAY I SAID YES SO SHE END THE CALL IMMEDIATELY I GOT OFF WORK SHE CALL ME AND WE MEET AND NOW WE ARE BACK AGAIN I CALL MAMA ANITA THE NEXT DAY THANKING HER FOR WHAT SHE HAS DONE IN FACT I STILL CALL HER AND THANK HER AS MY LIFE WAS NOT COMPLETE WITHOUT MY WIFE PLEASE BE CAREFUL HERE I HAVE BEEN SCAM THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS IF YOU WANT A TRUE LOVE SPELL THEN CONTACT MAMA ANITA (mama.anitatruelovespell@gmail.com)

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  56. My name is Jennifer and i want to testify of the good work done by a faithful DR PALOMA, a spell caster. in my life i never thought there is such thing as spiritual intercession. my problem started 5 months back when the father of my kids started putting up some strange behavior, i never knew he was having an affair outside our matrimonial home. it dawn on me on that faithful day 4th of April 21st 4:23pm when he came to the house to pick his things that was when i knew that situation has gotten out of hand and he then told me he was quitting the marriage which i have built for over 6 years, i was confused and dumbfounded i called on family and friends but to no avail. two months after i started having problem with my kids welfare rent-age and all of it, i really went through ***. until a day i was browsing on the internet and i happen to meet DR PALOMA Email palomaspelltemple@yahoo.com i never believed on this but i needed my man back so i gave the spell caster my problem at first i never trusted him so i was just doing it but you know a problem shared is half solved after a 2das my husband called me telling me that he his coming back home and that was all. now we are living happily and i still do contact him on this email: palomaspelltemple@yahoo.com

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  57. My name is morgan keri.i want to give thanks to dr.trust for bringing back my ex husband.No one could have ever made me believe that the letter I’m about to write would actually one day be written. I was the world’s biggest skeptic. I never believed in magic spells or anything like this, but I was told by a reliable source (a very close co-worker) that Trust is a very dedicated, gifted, and talented person,It was one of the best things I have ever done. My love life was in shambles; I had been through two divorces and was on the brink of a third. I just couldn't face another divorce, and I wanted to try harder to make our relationship work, but my husband didn’t seem to care. and he brake up with me again.I was confuse and do not no what to do again,rather them to get in contact with dr.trust. He did a love spell that make my husband come back to me. we are now very much happy with our self. dr.trust make him to realize how much we love and need each other.This man is for REAL and for good.he can also help you to fix your broken relationship. I had my husband back! It was like a miracle! He suddenly wanted to go to marriage counseling, and we’re doing very, very well,in our love life.contact email(ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com tel:+234186885231) http://ultimatespellcast-net.webs.com

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